Staying safe and staying yourself
What not to show, what to do when someone crosses a line, and how to keep a life outside the channel.
5 chapters · 29 min read
- 1What not to show on screenReflections, notifications, delivery labels and the window behind you: the ordinary things that identify a person.6 min
- 2Keeping your real name out of itWhere a legal name legitimately has to exist, where it leaks by accident, and how to separate the two.6 min
- 3The day someone crosses the lineA plan for the hours after it happens: evidence, lockdown, who to tell, and what not to do publicly.6 min
- 4Parasocial, from your sideWhy closeness is the product, what it costs you, and the habits that keep it from eating the person underneath.6 min
- 5Keeping a life outside the channelHours, money variance, the people who knew you before, and how to take a week off without it costing you.5 min